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Palma E. Pustilnik's avatar

I love this picture so much every time you post it. And I love how you show the world that we Jews can argue with anyone, even our dead relatives whom we really love. <3

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Barry Friedman's avatar

Death changes everything but the relationship.

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Judy Clay's avatar

Oh, moms where would we be without them and therapy bills?

They did their best 👌

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Barry Friedman's avatar

All joking aside, many of them tried to do exactly that -- as we are doing now with our kids.

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Kent Anderson's avatar

"Why must you make everything from the shit?"

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Terry Moran's avatar

When I was about 12, I got into an intense fight (fists and a pipe) with a neighbor kid who also was Irish. He hurt me bad, but I ended up kicking his ass. Really kicking his ass.

So, his Mom, an Irish immigrant, came to our door to complain, “Your Terry beat up my Bernie!”

And in response to that, and to every other thing that woman said, our Mom said this, “It’s between the boys, Lilly. It’s between the boys.

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Barry Friedman's avatar

Such an appealing parenting technique.

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David Blatt's avatar

Wow, that’s some argument to have with your dead mother. Can only imagine what they were like when she was alive!

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Barry Friedman's avatar

They were priceless, long, and always filled with laughs and love.

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Jack Mahoney's avatar

Brilliant. Awake and Sing.

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Barry Friedman's avatar

A Clifford Odets reference! Nice

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Jack Mahoney's avatar

First play I saw in London in 71. Amazing playwright.

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Robert Tetrault's avatar

"I'm gonna lay you out!"

It's stuff like that where size matters.

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Nita McPartland's avatar

Beautifully funny.

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heydave56's avatar

That's a damn done memory!

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Paul Cari's avatar

She sounds like the perfect foil for Jack.

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Scott M. Krasner's avatar

"I'm gonna lay you out." Nice Mom talk and very funny!

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Barry Friedman's avatar

My mother once told me to "Fuck Off." We had a good relationship

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Scott M. Krasner's avatar

I broke both arms in a bike accident while going to piano lessons. Before going to the ER I was sitting on my parents bed with icepacks on both wrists. Upon arriving home my mom saw me there and said "what the fuck's the matter with you?" It was rarely directed at me but her language could be spicy.

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Ole Biscuitbarrel's avatar

The “bit of the sht in you” takes Mothers Day off.

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Barry Friedman's avatar

You remember that? Very impressive. I don't know if it takes the day off, but I do try to turn in on low.

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Ed Cooper's avatar

I should be so lucky to have memories like this one, Barry.

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Barry Friedman's avatar

I wish you had to. As I know you know, it helps on days you find yourself missing them.

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Scott M. Krasner's avatar

On another note, anyone know of alternative spellings for "fakokta?" I hear and use the word but it just comes out, I never really thought about it. There was a drink in college called a "fugowee." It was made with four kinds of alcohol and after one or two the imbibee was asking "where the fuck are we" or the slurred version "figowee?"

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Barry Friedman's avatar

I think in Italian in "focaccia." (Or maybe not)

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Kent Anderson's avatar

Oh, and it was seven years before Facebook became available to the public. 2006.

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